I am doing this for the first time and would like to say that sexuality has a special meaning for me. It is not primarily about having fun, but about arriving, surrendering, being, receiving and being allowed to receive, without expectations. It's also about being seen, recognised and taken seriously. I've been alone for 4 years and what I mainly miss is not the sex in and of itself, but the closeness and togetherness on a merging basis, even if it just means sharing closeness or cuddling.
Especially for a man, yes, but feelings and sensitivity come first.
What I don't expect but want is honesty and authenticity in talking about desires in order to build trust. No rush and stress, just togetherness.